Friday, January 16, 2009


How compatible are you with your mate? This would seem like an easy question to answer but who would really be honest when they answer that question. With the divorce rate in the U.S. sparking to an alarming 46% in 2008 who can guarantee that their relationship will last " until death do us part ". Does that really mean the same thing as it did when our grandparents took their vows?

We are on this road which it seems that 50% percent of the time we end up crashing. If you knew that your marriage would end in divorce, would you still get married? Hind sight is 20/20 but there has to be a way to predict some of this stuff. If there were some way of taking a compatibility test before getting married then things would work out a little better. One way we can combat this issue is to focus on the blood type compatibility table which has been perfected by the Japanese. Lets be serious for a second here; if you truly loved someone and you took a compatibility test which states that you aren't as compatible as you think, would you still marry that person?

What if there were a law which stated that each marriage would be for 5 years and after the 5 year period you would have to either renew your vows or it would end in an annulment. Would you support that idea? I feel that would somehow cut down the divorce rate in our country and make people take the word MARRIAGE more seriously. Most marriages if they are going to end fall apart in the 1st 2 to 5 years. This idea would save you the long headache and the continued heartbreak of a nasty divorce.

This is just an idea. Don't take it for more than just that. If we get enough people to respond in a positive way then it can blossom into something more. To your continued blessings and compatibility..

Blood type

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Just 1 day at a time

I spoke to a couple yesterday about their blood type, their relationship, and their eating habits. Its funny when you actually put some of these tools to work you can find out so much. There is still an alarming number of people out there that do not know their blood type. You would think that if someone works in the medical field that they would know that one simple piece of information about themselves.

I tend to find many relationships where one partner knows their blood type and the other is totally oblivious. To me that's like having the cure for a disease that you both have and you just don't share it with your partner. That might sound a bit harsh but eating the wrong foods and not taking care of your body can lead to illness or even death. I guess when you live in certain parts of the world you have other priorities.

We don't have to change everything in one day. This isn't like smoking but it has pretty much the same end result if your not careful. You have to focus on your health at least one day in your lifetime. Better it be sooner than later.

A few women find themselves settling for less so that they don't have to work too hard to take care of themselves. You usually see those relationships everywhere you go but who would really admit it! This is not meant to demean women it's more truth that anything else. In our society with the independent woman we still have women out there who would rather be taken care of than to take care of themselves. I'm not saying there is anything wrong with that but I think you should be compatible with the person you are with.

Who cares about compatibility anymore? Sounds like a good question right? Some people are just happy that they have someone to love. I think from the woman's point of view its more like someone to take care of them.

Its been a little over a year and the more people that I run into the better I feel. It seems like I open a lot of peoples eyes when I talk to them about their health. It's not like they don't know the problem exists, they realize it but just need a push to get it done. Well, if your reading this, this is your push.